There was a book once called Men are from Mars, Woman are from Venus which I finding seems to be more accurate all the time. There are just times when I truly am just completely befuddled with some of the ways women think and react about some things.
What my rant about today really is this; I have had the experience that when I compliment someone lately about there looks or how beautiful they look, they seem to assume that I have no clue what I am talking about. They will say something like "Are you sure about that?" or "Are you blind?" and things similar to that. I don't know about you but if I say that then that is something I genuinely mean. I think it is just that women are being much to hard on themselves that they focus just on the flaws they think they have. I might not be a typical guy but I am guy and I do know what is attractive and sexy and cute. It just seems like women keep comparing themselves time and time again to someone who is assumed to be near perfect. Frankly these big celebrities are nice and have a good body but I wouldn't care to be with them any more or less. They are simply just different people and doesn't mean they turn me on more or I desire them anymore and for the most part I could not care less about who's who in Hollywood or Super models. I don't have a spark or that chemistry with people just because they have a perfect body. That would be much too shallow for me to ever consider.
This is just how I am and I am sure there are others out there like me. So I say to all you ladies that keep brushing off compliments and take them gracefully and take them at face value. I know there are a lot of jerks who might just say anything to get a quick score but don't punish those guys who are truly kind and caring because of those jerks. It makes me mad that so many generalizations go around that there aren't any "Nice" guys around and that nice guys finish last. That shouldn't be the case ever. I think that is simply the excuse for people to blame not finding the person who they truly are happy with. Don't settle for someone who is merely just there. Look for the one what actually is bring you joy and happiness on all levels. Love is not the place to settle for mediocre but something you should strive to excel in because love is the something that should last for a lifetime.
1 comment:
men dont understand women. women dont understand men. i agree with the last post even though you made some points. women are forced in todays society to wear a certain thing or be a certain body type to fit in. if men in general would not be so fascinated by stick figured women, then the dying breed of full figured women, would stand a chance. People judge and thats just how things are.
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